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APVS140000502025
IN THE COURT OF THE CIVIL JUDGE (SENIOR DIVISION), CHODAVARAM.
Present : Sri V.Gowri Sankara Rao,
Civil Judge (Senior Division), Chodavaram.
Wednesday, this the 6th day of May, 2026.
H.M.O.P.NO.34/2025
Between Boddapati Lokesh, S/o Boddapati Lakshmanarao, aged 28 years, resident of D.No. 22-198, Boddapativari Street, Pakeersahebpeta, hamlet of Chodavaram, Chodavaram Mandal, Anakapalli District.
...Petitioner.
And
Boddapati (Polaki) Prathyusha, W/o Lokesh, aged 32 years, employee in State Bank of India, D/o late Venkataramanamurty, D.No.44-18-36, Flat No.F-4, Sannibabu Heights, Thatichetlapalem, Visakhapatnam, presently residing at Durga Prasad Bisoi GTL, 4/2, Railway Bungalow, Clark Town, Mamthi Road, OPP: Salode Tower, Jaripatka, Nagapur, Maharastra.
...Respondent.
This petition is coming on for final hearing before me on 29.04.2026 in the presence of Sri Allu Giridhar, Advocate for the petitioner, and the respondent remained ex parte, and after perusing the material available on record and upon hearing the arguments and having stood over for consideration to this day, the Court delivered the following:
O R D E R
1.The present petition is filed by the petitioner under Section 9 of the Hindu
Marriage Act, 1955 seeking the Court to grant a decree for restitution of conjugal rights of the petitioner by directing the respondent to join him and to lead marital
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2 life with him, in the interest of justice. It may be noted here that the petitioner is the husband of the respondent.
2.The averments made in the present petition, in brief, are that the petitioner and respondent have got much acquaintance from the year 2019, and the petitioner fell in love with the respondent when she was working in State Bank of
India, Chodavaram, and he used to work in a private company at
Visakhapatnam. The petitioner and the respondent used to talk with each other, and accordingly they come to a conclusion to get married, and at that time the respondent was transferred to State Bank of India, Sabbavaram Branch, and even then they used to meet with each other. While matter stood thus, the petitioner and the respondent informed their love to their parents and elders, and by then the father of the respondent was no more, and the respondent had one brother who is residing at Visakhapatnam. The senior paternal uncle, maternal uncle and other relatives of the respondent are living at Nagapur, Maharasthra, and all of them agreed to perform the marriage of the respondent with the petitioner, and accordingly they fixed the marriage date as 24.06.2021, and they performed the marriage at V Convention Function Hall Gandhigramam,
Chodavaram, with the expenses of the parents of the petitioner, and no dowry or other presentations were given by either side at the time of the marriage or subsequent to the marriage.
3.It is also averred therein that the respondent joined the conjugal society of the petitioner at Pakeersahebpeta and put up the marital home there, and he used to bring the respondent to Sabbavaram to her work place and he used to attend his duties and return back by evening, and out of the wedlock they were blessed with a son on 24.06.2022, and thereafter she used to raise silly disputes with the petitioner and she used to scold and insult the parents of the petitioner as they belonged to agricultural family. The respondent used to insult the petitioner stating that he has no proper employment, and she used to insist and
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3 demand the petitioner to purchase a car, for which he expressed his financial inability to the respondent but she did not heed his words and she used to harass him, and thereby he could not bear her harassment and he purchased a car by borrowing amounts from others. The mother and brother of the respondent got so many debts and in order to discharge their debts, the respondent used to borrow amounts from the people of Sabbavaram and employees of State Bank of India, Visakhapatnam, and from others, and she used to lead luxurious life and demanded the petitioner to meet her expenses.
While so, on on 30.01.2024 when the petitioner woke up and by that time the respondent and her mother left the house leaving their son with the petitioner, and then he enquired about the respondent with his relatives but he could not trace her whereabouts and her phone was also switched off. Thereupon, the petitioner out of anxiety lodged a report before Pendurthi Police stating that the respondent was missing and left the marital home by leaving their son with the petitioner, and after lapse of 21 days, the respondent and her mother informed
Pendurthi Police that the respondent is in Nagapur and they are in safe position, and the said fact was informed by Pendurthi Police to the petitioner.
4.It is averred therein that the absence of the respondent and loss of mother feeding to his son, his son fell sick and immediately he joined his son at Lotus
Hospital, Visakhapatnam, as inpatient but his son could not recover from ill- health, and the Doctor who treated his son, advised the petitioner to bring the respondent, who is the mother of his son. Immediately the petitioner informed the same to the brother of the respondent, namely, Praveen over phone about the situation by showing his son in Whatsapp who was in hospital, and he requested him to send it to the respondent as her phone was switched off. In spite of the above, the respondent did not turn up and she refused to come to see his son and asked him to do whatever he liked or join his son in orphanage home. Then, the Doctor advised the petitioner to send his son to the place of the
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4 respondent to recover his health, and as per the advice of the Doctor, he along with his son, his uncle Bobbari Prameswararao @ Siva, his brother-in-law
Uggina Govinda went to Nagapur but the respondent, her brother and her uncles demanded the petitioner to discharge the debts contracted by the respondent and her mother to look after the welfare and health of his son, and they demanded the same to be in writing, and if he did not oblige the same, they threatened him with dire consequences and implicate him in false criminal cases. As there is no other go, the petitioner executed an undertaking as demanded by the respondent, her brother and her uncles, and he returned back to his village as the respondent refused to join him. Subsequently, on several occasions the petitioner requested the respondent over phone and her brother and mother to send the respondent along with his son to the marital home but the respondent and the above persons did not answer the phone.
5.It is also averred therein that then the petitioner raised a dispute through the elders of Visakhapatnam and requested the respondent to join him along with his son, and the respondent and her mother showed the said undertaking executed by him and showed the debts contracted by the respondent, her mother and her brother and demanded him to discharge the same by disposing of his house and the lands in the village of his father. Thereupon, the panchayat elders questioned the respondent and her family members to show the documents of debts and also asked them to call the persons where the respondent borrowed the amounts as mentioned in the letter/undertaking, for which the respondent and her family members admitted that she was insisting the amounts mentioned in the letter/undertaking and she tendered an apology and requested the petitioner to discharge the borrowed sum to the tune of
Rs.25.00 lakhs by way of sale of the house and lands of his father, and she also stated that there is no source of income to her and her family members to discharge the debts in the presence of the elders. The petitioner informed that if
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5 the respondent along with his son join him, he would convince his parents to dispose of the properties and discharge the debts to some extent but she along with her inmates did not agree for the same, and she refused to join him, and his parents got small extent of land and house, which is required for their sustenance and maintenance, and if the same are sold, they would be on road.
The petitioner failed in all his attempts to bring back the respondent to the marital home and his attempts turned futile, and the respondent used to act under the directions of her mother and other inmates, who are behind back of the respondent and are spoiling her mind, and they misguided in all walks of her life. There are no laches on part of the petitioner, and the respondent is under obligation to join him and to lead conjugal life with him and to give conjugal happiness to him as a dutiful wife and discharge her conjugal duties in the marital home, but she willfully and wantonly deserted him without any sufficient and reasonable cause and excuse, and thus the same is a cruelty against him, and her acts against him from the beginning itself is a cruelty. The respondent deserted the petitioner from 30.01.2024 onwards and she is living with her mother and other inmates, and the petitioner has got much love and affection towards her. The petitioner failed in all his attempts to bring back the respondent to the marital home and therefore he got issued a registered lawyer’s notice on 04.02.2025 to the respondent to her both addresses calling upon her to join him, and she managed the postal authorities and got endorsement thereon as the respondent left, and thus she withdrew from the conjugal society of the petitioner without any just or sufficient cause or excuse, and she is his legally wedded wife, and she is bound under law to come and join with him to lead conjugal life and to provide conjugal happiness to him. There is no collusion in between the petitioner and the respondent in approaching this Court, and there is no undue
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6 delay in filing the present petition, and no similar application is filed in any Court of law previously for the relief claimed hereinabove. Hence, the present petition.
6.The respondent was called absent and there was no representation on her behalf before the Court from any other quarter until 03.45 P.M. on 07.04.2026 though she was served with notice sent through Court, as was apparent from the postal consignment tracking report filed by the learned counsel for the petitioner.
Thus, it appeared that the respondent was not interested to prosecute the present petition vigilantly and diligently anymore according to law, for the reasons best known to her. Thus, the respondent came to be set ex parte on 07.04.2026. That is how, the present petition was taken up for adjudication.
7.In the light of the above, the points that arise for determination are:
1) Whether the petitioner is justified in seeking the Court to grant a decree for restitution of conjugal rights of the petitioner by directing the respondent to join him and to lead marital life with him, having due regard to the facts and circumstances obtaining in this case ?
2) To what relief?
8. During the course of enquiry, in order to prove the case of the petitioner, he examined himself as PW.1 and other witness was examined as PW.2, who is a third party to the present petition, and Exs.P.1 to P.5 were marked on his behalf. Ex.P1 is the wedding card; Ex.P.2 is a set of four photographs along with
CD; Ex.P.3 is the verified copy of the Certificate of Marriage dated 01.11.2021 issued by the Marriage Registrar, Dwarakanagar, Visakhapatnam; Ex.P.4 is the office copy of the registered lawyer’s notice dated 04.02.2025 along with postal receipt addressed to the respondent; and Ex.P.5 is a set of two returned RPAD covers both addressed to the respondent.
9. Heard the learned counsel for the petitioner. Perused the material available on record.
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POINT NO.1:
10.The learned counsel for the petitioner while reiterating the avements of the present petition and referring to the evidence brought on record on behalf of his client, seriously contended that the marriage of the petitioner and the respondent was performed on 24.06.2021, and their marriage was a love marriage, and they lived together happily for a period of one year, and out of the wedlock they were blessed with a son; and that after the birth of their son, the respondent used to scold and insult the petitioner on the ground that he has no permanent employment, and she demanded him to purchase a car for which he expressed inability to do so but she did not heed his words; and that the respondent continued to harass the petitioner and thereby he obtained loan, borrowed monies and purchased a car, and he used to pay the installments of the said loans regularly; and that the respondent borrowed loans from various persons to lead luxurious life and demanded him to discharge those debts, and while so on 30.01.2024 when he woke up he found the respondent and her mother were missing in his house leaving his son, and immediately he made enquiries in the surroundings but their whereabouts were not found and the phone of the respondent was also switched off; and that then he lodged a report before
Pendurthi Police on the ground that the respondent was missing leaving his son with him, and 21 days thereafter the police informed him that she is in Nagapur and is in safe position, and due to her absence his son fell sick, who was admitted in Lotus Hospital, Visakhapatnam, but his son could not be recuperated from ill-health and the Doctor advised him to bring the respondent, who is the mother of his son; and that thereupon the petitioner contacted the brother of the respondent, namely, Praveen and showed his son in Whatsapp and requested him to inform the same to the respondent, who refused to come to see her son and advised the petitioner to do whatever he liked to do about his son or join him in orphanage; and that on the advice of the Doctor the petitioner along with his
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8 uncle Bobbari Parameswararao @ Siva, his brother-in-law Govinda went to
Nagapur whereat the respondent, her mother and her uncles demanded the petitioner to discharge the debts borrowed by the respondent and her mother to the tune of Rs.25.00 lakhs by disposing of his house and lands, to look after the welfare and health of his son, and they demanded him to give the same in writing, and if he did not oblige the same, they threatened him to implicate in false criminal cases; and that as there was no other go the petitioner executed an undertaking as demanded by the respondent, her mother and her uncles and returned back to his Village as she refused to join him, and later he raised a dispute before the elders who advised her to join the petitioner and lead marital life with him but she did not heed their words; and that the petitioner has no source of income to discharge the said debts borrowed by the respondent and her mother, and if she joins him, he would convince his parents to dispose of the properties and discharge the said debts to some extent but she did not agree therefor; and that thereby he got issued Ex.P.4 registered lawyer’s notice to the respondent to her both addresses which came to be returned with endorsement ‘left’, and therefore she deserted him without any sufficient cause and reasonable excuse, which caused mental agony and hardship to him. The learned counsel therefore requested the Court to allow the present petition as prayed for, in the interest of justice.
11. As can be seen from the material brought on record, it is obvious that the petitioner filed his evidence affidavit in lieu of his chief-examination, and he is thus examined-in-chief as PW.1, who reiterated almost the averments of the present petition and got marked Exs.P.1 to P.5 on his behalf. A perusal of Ex.P.1 wedding card reveals that the marriage was scheduled to be performed between the petitioner and the respondent on 24.06.2021. A glance at Ex.P.2 a set of four photographs along with CD and Ex.P.3 certificate of marriage together discloses that the marriage between the petitioner and the respondent was performed on
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9 24.06.2021. A perusal of Ex.P.4 lawyer’s notice dated 04.02.2025 reflects that it was sent to both address of the respondent calling upon her to join the petitioner along with his son, whereas a look at Ex.P.5 a set of two returned RPAD covers both addressed to the respondent manifests that the same were returned unserved with endorsement as the respondent ‘left’. The evidence of PW.2, who is a third party to the present petition and who claimed to have personal knowledge about the facts of the present petition, corroborates the evidence of
PW.1 on all material aspects. Further, the respondent was set ex parte as stated above in detail. However, it is the legitimate duty of the Court to adjudicate the case on merits even though the respondent did not prefer to contest the case on merits, for the reasons best known to her.
12.Coming to the well settled principle of law on the point as to passing of ex parte decrees, in BALRAJ TANEJA v. SUNIL MADAN [AIR 1999 SC 3381] the
Hon'ble Supreme Court held inter alia thus:
“43.……… Whether it is a case which is contested by the defendants by filing a written statement, or a case which proceeds ex parte and is ultimately decided as an ex parte case, or is a case in which the written statement is not filed and the case is decided under Order 8, Rule 10, the Court has to write a judgment which must be in conformity with the provisions of the Code or at least set out the reasoning by which the controversy is resolved.”
13.In MAILWAR NARSAPPA v. B.SANGAMMA [2014 (1) ALT 171] our
Hon'ble High Courtheld inter alia thus:
“10.……… It is well settled that a decree even if ex parte must show application of mind and adjudication on the vital aspects of the suit.”
14.In S.GURVAIAH v. S.RAMESH [2015 (3) ALT 362 (DB)] our Hon'ble High
Courtheld inter alia thus:
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10 “9.……… The Court dealing with the suit in the absence of written statement, in any case, is obliged to write a judgment as understood in common parlance. A Judge cannot merely say “suit decreed”, the whole process of reasoning has to be set out for deciding the case one way or the other. From bare perusal of the impugned judgment, it is apparent that it suffers from glaring infirmity and it cannot be sustained.”
15.Keeping in mind the law laid down in the said Judgments and turning to the facts and circumstances of the case at hand, it is perspicuous that the evidence adduced by the petitioner as PW.1 coupled with the evidence of PW.2 clinchingly inter alia establishes that the respondent is the wife of the petitioner, and their marriage was performed on 24.06.2021 vide Ex.P.1 wedding card,
Ex.P.2 a set of four photographs, Ex.P.3 certificate of marriage, including other material available on record. After the marriage, the petitioner joined the conjugal society of the respondent, and out of the wedlock they were blessed with a son.
Later, disputes arose between the petitioner and the respondent, as mentioned hereinbefore in detail and thereby the respondent deserted the petitioner without any sufficient cause and reasonable excuse, and she failed to join him to lead marital life despite the best efforts made by him in that regard.
16.At this stage, it is apposite to refer to the Judgment of the Hon’ble
Supreme Court rendered in SMT.SAROJ RANI v. SUDARSHAN KUMAR
CHADHA [1984 AIR SC ] 1562 wherein while considering the aspect of decree for restitution of conjugal rights it was inter alia held thus:
“In India it may be borne in mind that conjugal rights i.e. right of the husband or the wife to the society of the other spouse is not merely creature of the statute. Such a right is inherent in the very institution of marriage itself. See in this connection Mulla's Hindu Law-15th Edn. p. 567-
Para 443. There are sufficient safeguards in Section 9 to prevent it from being a tyranny. The importance of the concept of conjugal rights can be
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11 viewed in the light of Law Commission-71st Report on the Hindu Marriage
Act, 1955. ……...”
Bearing in mind the law laid down in the said Judgments and applying the same to the facts and circumstances of the case, it certainly demonstrates that after the birth of their son, the respondent used to scold and insult the petitioner, and she is addicted to luxurious life and thereby she borrowed monies from others and she demanded him to purchase a car, for which he expressed his financial inability but she did not heed his words; and that the petitioner was unable to bear the harassment meted out to him by the respondent, he purchased a car by obtaining loan and by borrowing monies from others; and that despite the same, the respondent deserted him on 30.01.2024 without any intimation to him and then he lodged a report before the police on the ground that she was found missing, and later police informed him that she is in Nagapur and she is in safe position; and that then the petitioner and his relatives went to Nagapur and requested her to join him to lead marital life but it was in vain, and as there was no other go, he got issued Ex.P.4 registered lawyer’s notice to her both addresses, which came to be returned unserved and she failed to join him, and as a result thereof, he was forced to file the present petition for the relief narrated hereinbefore in detail. The respondent remained ex parte for the reasons best known to her and thereby the evidence adduced by the petitioner remained uncontroverted. Not only that, there is no other material forthcoming from the record to disbelieve the evidence adduced by the petitioner. The petitioner is suffering from mental agony and hardship because of the attitude of the respondent in not joining him to lead marital life, without any legitimate rhyme or reason.
17.Having due regard to the facts and circumstances of the case discussed hereinabove, and in the light of the submissions made by the learned counsel for the petitioner, and in view of the Judgments referred to supra, and in the best
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12 interest of justice, this Court is of the humble and considered view that the present petition is liable to be allowed as prayed for. Point No.1 is accordingly answered in the affirmative.
POINT NO.2:
18.For the aforementioned reasons and in the result, the present petition is allowed by granting a decree for restitution of conjugal rights of the petitioner with the respondent. Consequently, the respondent is hereby directed to join the conjugal society of the petitioner within a period of two months from the date of this order, failing which the petitioner is at liberty to proceed according to law.
Typed to my dictation by the Stenographer Grade-II, corrected, and
pronounced by me in the open Court, on this the 6th day of May, 2026.
Sd/- V.Gowri Sankara Rao,
Civil Judge (Senior Division),
Chodavaram.
Witnesses Examined
For Petitioner For Respondent
PW.1: Boddapati Lokesh.None
PW.2: Uggina Govinda.
Documents Marked
For Petitioner For Respondent
Ex.P.1: Wedding card.Nil.
Ex.P.2: A set of four photographs along with CD.
Ex.P.3: Verified copy of the Certificate of Marriage dated 01.11.2021 issued by the Marriage Registrar, Dwarakanagar, Visakhapatnam.
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Ex.P.4: Office copy of the registered lawyer’s notice dated 04.02.2025 along with postal receipt addressed to the respondent.
Ex.P.5: A set of two returned RPAD covers both addressed to the respondent.
Sd/- V.Gowri Sankara Rao,
Civil Judge (Senior Division),
Chodavaram.
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